The National Family Partnership's Red Ribbon Campaign, October 23-31, is a time to bring people together and make the drug-free message visible. The Red Ribbon Campaign, conducted annually since 1985 through local and nationwide volunteers, has made October a time to reinforce and introduce students throughout the country to the simple realization that they can choose to grow up drug-free.
The Red Ribbon media focus each October and the many in-school activities have helped to get this message across to our youngest children. School and parental involvement made a measurable difference throughout the 1980's. Great strides have been made in preventing our children from making damaging choices where schools, parents and communities have worked together.
But October is only one month in a full year of growing up with the peer pressures and the very tough realities of becoming a young adult in this country. Although we have made a difference at the earliest elementary school levels, success has been harder to achieve in the middle and high school levels, in large part due to a lack of parental involvement. In those crucial preteen and teenage years, parents are, in too many cases, missing from the equation that would equal greater success.
The lack of parental involvement has led to the beginning of an increase in drug use in the early nineties. This has been coupled with the casual acceptance by youth of drug use among their peers. It is a disturbing change that compels us to find new ways to effectively involve parents before we lose the ground we gained in the eighties.
For many of our young adults, drug and alcohol use has been the result of confused community norms and a low self-esteem. Coupled with peer pressure, wrong choices somehow become a "socially acceptable" behavior among peers. This peer group pressure can be counter-balanced by a strong, informed parental, school and community stand against the use of drugs and alcohol to cope with growing up. Without this crucial parental, school and community involvement, healthy societal and family norms break down.
We cannot afford to let this continue. We cannot let our young adults sacrifice their futures…or their lives. Parents, schools and communities must work together to prevent drug and alcohol abuse.
National Red Ribbon Week, a universal prevention program, sets the stage to deliver selected and targeted prevention programs. Informed Families, the Florida affiliate of the National Family Partnership, has developed two additional programs which allow schools, parents and the community to work together to prevent problem behaviors. The programs are Community Action Teams (CATs) and Safe Homes/Safe Parties.
A Community Action Team (CAT) builds a team within the school and a neighborhood coalition around a school. Members of the team within the school include- students, teachers, administrators, coaches, parents, grandparents, counselors, cafeteria workers, and bus drivers. Members of the team surrounding the school include police, civic and religious leaders, doctors, lawyers, business people, and representatives of all the community's service providers. Each CAT assesses the needs of their particular school, selects from a menu of programs, or designs programs to implement and involve the school and surrounding community in drug awareness, prevention and education efforts.
The goals of the CAT program are to:
- Increase parental involvement in their child's school
- Increase communication between and among parents, school administrators, teachers and students
- Create a sense of community belonging for parents, administrators, teachers and students
- Educate parents and other adults about the alcohol/drug problems and other detrimental issues facing our children today
- Involve everyone in drug prevention solutions
Each CAT offers training in their school/community including but not limited to:
- Workshops based on the Health Realization Model developed by Roger Mills, Ph.D.
- Recruiting
- Group dynamics
- Strategic planning
- Information about alcohol, tobacco and illegal drugs
- Family management
- Parent peer groups
- Refrigerator News
Informed Families' Safe Homes/Safe Parties is one example of a select and targeted program the CAT may decide to implement. Through the Safe Homes/Safe Parties program, parents and others learn to set guidelines for their children's behavior. Parents sign a pledge stating that they:
- Will set guidelines for their children's behaviors
- Will not allow underage youth to drink alcoholic beverages or use tobacco or other drugs in their home or place of business
- Will not allow underage youth to have unsupervised parties or gatherings in their home or place of business
- Will encourage alcohol-free and drug-free parties and activities for underage youth
Safe Homes/Safe Parties pledge drives take place in schools where a designated individual collects hundreds of parent signatures. With permission from parents who signed the pledge, names and telephone numbers are published in a school directory. Directories are distributed to parents who now have a fast and reliable means for contacting each other.
Once the school directory has been published, parent peer groups are formed. Parents meet four times with set agendas including the latest research on teenage brain development, the influence of the media upon adolescents, the need for setting norms, and most importantly, defining and setting guidelines. You can visit the Informed Families site for more information on these programs.
Experiential education is powerful and acknowledged as one of the most important and effective forms of educating and training. Isn't it time we learned to fight fire with fire, work together, and design holistic coordinated programs to influence the individual, the peer group, the school, the family, and the community? We possess the knowledge, but do we possess the spirit and the quality of relationships to work together to help kids grow up safe, healthy, and drug-free? The Red Ribbon Campaign, October 23-31, offers us a time to demonstrate our team spirit and showcase our message. Together, we can help America's kids grow up safe, healthy and drug-free!


